I am absolutely certain that I wouldn't be here without my magical ladies. I have no hesitation when I say these astonishing people saved my life. So beware this entry is probably going to get a little wordy...
Jessica-Our story is unique and if you know our story you know how much we really mean to each other. We met "officially" for the first time at UNCG Volleyball Camp the summer of '03. It was my senior year and my year to rule the court and no high school rival would stand in my way. Rockingham County Cougars were not only our biggest competition in our conference but they were our most HATED rival. If you were a Panther you hated all things Cougar but the day Jessica and I became friends changed all that. The day we met I had learned that my grandmother had just passed away from cancer and that exact same day Jess found out her grandmother had just gotten cancer. The night after learning about my grandmothers death the only person I really wanted to talk to was her. I barely even knew her but I felt like she would know exactly what I was going through. I went home from camp that year having a new respect for Rockingham and of course my new friend. Ever since that day we have been inseparable. If I were to write about all the things we have been through together it would span 100,000 pages. So basically just know she is and will forever be my best friend.
Meredith-I met Meredith in the 7th grade and was completely TERRIFIED of her. She was one of the best athletes I had ever seen and was tough as nails. She rolled her ankle during basketball season that year and went right back out and played like it was no big deal. I always wanted to be friends with her because of how amazing of an athlete she was but little did I know she would be such an inspiring friend. I owe my whole high school career to Meredith. She watched over me like a hawk. No one messed with me because they knew if they did she would kick their ass for me. We did almost everything together. She picked me up from school and most days would take me home. (I didn't get my license till my junior year, perks of having a late birthday) She made me want to be a better person, athlete and friend because of how well she treated me and everyone else. I was honored when she asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and I one day know she will be in mine. Even though she lives 4 hours away from me now we are still the best of friends. We were/are teammates, friends, and sisters. #OutlawsForLife
Hannah-We have been through EVERYTHING together and yes that includes being shot at (not a joke). Hannah has been with me everyday since we were old enough to walk and I wouldn't change anything. We basically had every class in high school together and she was of course my cheat buddy (even though neither one of us knew the answers we still cheated off each other). Together we have conquered loss, heartbreak, many nights we can't remember, gunshots, car accidents and winning. (I know that last one, how charlie sheen of me) I was also a bridesmaid in her wedding and we coined the phrase #Hangmaids because we party like the hangover (the movie) and have awkward fun like bridesmaids (the movie). Combine those two movies together and you get Hangmaids (I know you're welcome for that genius, feel free to steal it) I'd be completely lost without Hannah and her whole family. I am just as close to her two sisters (Glenn and Sarah) as I am her. Her father (Jerry, Ellis, E, Big E) was my softball coach and basically my second father. She is one of the few friends who has stuck by me since day one and I know that will never change.
Glenn-Hannah's middle sister. Her real name is Stephanie but I have always called her Glenn (her middle name) because that's what her father used to scream at her during our softball games. She has been like the little sister I have never had. She has always got her shit together and is always busy (I like to call it hustling but she isn't a drug dealer) She has always been around because of Hannah but we have just recently gotten close and I am so glad that we did. She laughs at all of my jokes and is always ready to party. She's just one of those people who is just always in a good mood. She's very fun to be around and if your in a bad mood she will put you in a good one.
Traci-Life changer, that's probably the best way for me to describe her. She has given me guidance through some of my most difficult times. She also knows how to have a lot of fun. I made her sign a contract a few months ago basically saying that we would see each other every week. She hasn't let me down yet. We also have a singing group together called Black Diamonds (I am not kidding, we are both amazing singers) She is also my hair dresser and is always keeping me fresh to death (don't hate) I have never questioned her judgement except for one time when I made her dye my whole head platinum blond (huge mistake) she tried to talk me out of it like a good friend should but I didn't listen (I will from now on believe me) I love her like a sister and I know the feeling is mutual. She surprises me with her ability to make me laugh when I am least expecting it. I am so glad I have found someone who loves and respects me unequivocally.
Elyce-We are so mean to each other that if people were to just hear us talking they would think we hated each other. We are actually quite the best of friends and she is getting just about as funny as I am (You aren't at my level yet so don't get a big head after that comment) We swear like sailors and sometimes even make up unparalleled cuss combos. We have been through a lot together as well but the majority of our times are nothing but insults and rudeness. I guess I could call Elyce my "Chesty Bestie" take one look at her and you will understand why. That is all (I've said enough about you and my hands are hurting from all the typing)
Jordan-We surprisingly were not friends in our high school years but I sure wished we would have been. Jordan is one of those people where you never know what is going to come out of her mouth. Sometimes things she say don't make a lick of sense but they are always humorous. She is very straight forward in a round about way. I know that probably makes no sense to you but well here I will just give you an example when I ask Jordan if she wants to come to a party this weekend and she responds with "we'll see" I know that the answer is no. She speaks in code I guess is a better way to explain it. She is also not shy at all. One of my fondest memories of her is while at the movies with our whole senior class there she pulled down her pants and mooned everyone. Those are just some of the many reasons why I love her crazy ass.
Becca-One of my earliest friends. We have literally done everything together. I mean that literally. I don't have a memory of my childhood without her being in it. Our parents were sports fanatics and of course made us play every sport available for little girls. I would say our only difference is that she is a Tar Heel and I am a Blue Devil (if you know the rivalry you know that's a big deal) Each year when they match up I know I will hear from her regardless of who wins. That's the way its always been, but we can't watch it together because that's too much. What I think is so funny is that we went to every level of school together (yes that includes college) and we played on every team together. We even played in college. She was my setter and I was her outside hitter (volleyball) I wouldn't change any of it. We don't see each other as much as we used to because she has taken her talents to Charlotte NC (Lebron reference, I know I am sorry I am sports nut you will find out in later posts) but I know no matter what she will be a friend for life.
Last but certainly not least!
Lauren-We have been through the worst of times and the best of times together. I have seen her at her lowest only to rebound quickly back to her best. We seriously are the same person but different paths. We even were missing the same two teeth! We are like magnets for each other, no matter how bad things have gotten between us we always find our way back to each other. Every time we fought a little piece of me died, because I felt like at certain points I had completely lost her due to bad boyfriends or bad life choices. We have grown up now and matured to where we have this amazing respect and connection with each other. Just because we have matured doesn't mean we don't act like little school girls when we get around each other. We can quote movies, rap and make up catch phrases with the best of them. We also are masters at the 10 second hug. If you don't know about it google it. If there is one thing I hate it's that we can't see each other very often because she moved away. She moved away to start over and it benefited her more than she knows. I am so proud that she got out of a terrible situation and is now on the pursuit of happiness. #ShakeAndBake #FistPoundIntoExplosion
I am forever grateful for these fabulous people and I wouldn't change any of our memories. I hope they know they mean a lot to me for me to write paragraphs about them each. We all know short paragraphs are the way to the soul (or something like that)
I love you all...more than you know
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