Tuesday, July 17, 2012

The only exception

I would love to be able to tell you all that you will one day fall in love, I cant say for certain that, that is possible because I am not a mind reader or a psychic. What I do know is that when/if you find that special someone to fall in love with, hold on to them. It's an amazing feeling being in love, it warms your body, ignites your heart, and fills your soul with complete and utter happiness. I have found that true love will and can withstand all, it can heal a wound but it can also cut you to the core. Don't be afraid of love because it isn't something to be scared of. It is something to be cherished, appreciated and preserved.

Being in a relationship is of course about give and take. Give as much love as you can give and take in the adoration that you receive. Finding this unique balance will ensure that you will have a long lasting relationship. It is finding this balance that makes things tricky. It takes years of this give and take process to figure out what works best for you and your relationship.

Be devoted, to really truly have someones heart you they have to be able to trust you. You have to show them that you are in this for the long haul. Now I don't mean go out and buy that person a wedding ring, what I mean is, show that person that you love that you are dedicated to that relationship. It could be a public or private display but it needs to be shown.

Last but certainly not least is...COMMUNICATE...I have learned here recently that you need to air our your grievances. It is better to be honest about your problems rather than hide them and let them boil over at a later date. Honesty is the best policy people and if you don't believe me try it out for yourself but I can guarantee you that you will agree with me. Think of it this way...if you are up front and honest there wont be an argument, if you aren't then expect a long, drawn out argument headed your way.

Good luck in finding your "only exception"

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